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Bimwe mu byo abakobwa bakunda ku basore

Posted on July 29, 2012 at 3:45 AM

Ese wowe ni iki cyaba kigukurura ku bahungu muri rusange cyangwa ku mugabo wishakiye ku buryo wumva amarangamutima yawe akwemeza kumukunda?

Urubuga slate.fr rwabajije ibibazo abakobwa tandukanye bagenda batanga ibibakurura kurusha ibindi ku gitsina gabo.

Mu byagaragaye, indoro y’umusore akenshi iba igaragaza icyo ashaka ikunze gukundwa n’abakobwa benshi. Ariko akenshi ngo biba byiza iyo ndoro itabeshya ni ukuvuga igaragaza ibiri mu musore cyangwa umugabo.

Ikindi abakobwa bakunda ngo ni abasore banini bafite n’amazuru manini cyangwa aringaniye kuko akenshi bahita biyumvisha ko umuntu munini aba ashoboye gukora, kandi yanarinda umukunzi we.

Umusatsi utari irende cyane na wo ni kimwe usanga abakobwa bakunda kandi bakanakunda umuhungu usabana kandi udapfa kurakazwa n’ubusa.

Dukomeje ku myitwarire, umuhungu utuma abantu bose bamwitaho nk’umuhanzi cyangwa umunyacyubahiro kandi akaba anafite ijwi ryiyubashye.

Kubera ko abakobwa benshi bakunda gusohokanwa, hari n’abandi bakunda abasore babasohokana maze bakabashimisha nko muri week-end, cyangwa mu yandi ma-sorties.

Hari kandi abandi bakunda umusore cyangwa umugabo ukunda kwitegerezanya ubwuzu ibice byabo by’umubiri bitandukanye nk’amabere, amabuno, cyangwa mu maso.

Hari n’abandi bakururwa n’ubumenyi bw’umusore; ni ukuvuga amagambo yuzuye ubwenge haba mu buzima busanzwe cyangwa se no mu bumenyi bwo mu ishuri.

Kuba tuvuze ku byo abakobwa babona ku bahungu ntibivuze ko abahungu bo ntabyo babona ku bakobwa bibakurura kuko bimwe muri ibi babihuriraho. Kandi akenshi abahungu bo bakunze gukururwa n’isura nziza cyangwa imiterere myiza y’umukobwa mbere yo kumenya neza umukobwa.

 

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Menya niba koko agukunda cyangwa se ko ashaka ko mwinjirana mu rukundo


 

 

1. Kugushyira muri gahunda ze z’ejo hazaza. Uyu muhungu ahora yihatira gukora ibikorwa bibafitiye mwembi ejo hazaza akamaro. Niyo ntacyo murageraho, wumva mu nzozi ze harimo kuzabana na we ubuzima bwe bwose.


2. Kugusekera cyangwa kumwenyurana ibinezaneza igihe akubonye, Umuhungu ugukunda niyo yaba ababaye, iyo akubonye kubera ko uba uri umuntu w’agaciro imbere ye no mu buzima bwe, aba yumva agiye kugutura agahinda ke akaruhuka kuko aba yizeye ko umutwaro afite ugiye kuwumwakira. Ni kimwe n’iyo yishimye, ahora yumva ashaka kugusangiza ibyishimo bye bya buri munsi ndetse bya buri mwanya.


3. Kugucira bugufi yagukorera ikosa akagira ishyaka ryo kugusaba imbabazi vuba kandi aciye bugufi, n’igihe ari wowe kandi wamukoshereje, iyo umusabye imbabazi ubikuye ku mutima arakumva akaziguha kandi akakugira n’inama ku buryo wazajya wirinda amakosa.


4. Kuguha impano zisanzwe zidahanitse kandi n’igihe runaka kitateguwe, nta mpamvu aziguhereye, nta kintu kidasanzwe wabaye. Izi mpano si izihanitse kuko akantu kose uhawe n’uwo ukunda kandi nawe agukunda wumva ari impano.


5. Gukunda kukwitegereza. Umuhungu ugukunda uzasanga akunda kukureba, aguhozaho ijisho, akantu kose ukoze niyo waba uzi ko atakubonye uzisanga yakubonye kare kandi neza, niho nusitara gahoro cyane uzumva yakubwiye ngo komera, niwitsamura cyangwa ukajya kwitsamura bikanga azahita akubwira ngo urakire, nimuvugana utishimye utari wabimubwira uzumva ahise akubaza ngo umeze ute cyangwa ngo uravuga nk’utameze neza.


6. Kukwisanzuraho kugeza ubwo akubwira amateka y’ubuzima bwe atandukanye ndetse akihatira kukubaza amateka yawe yose, uzasanga ashaka kumenyana n’abo mu muryango wawe, amateka yawe ya kera. Ibyo uzamubwira waciyemo bibabaje uzajya wumva bimubabaje n’ubwo byashize azajya akwihanganisha kandi ubyumve ko abikuye ku mutima koko.


7. Kukwemera uko uri kose.Umuhungu wagukunze akagera n’igihe agusaba urukundo ni uko uba waramunyuze mu by’ukuri. Igihe rero muzamarana igihe kirekire mukundana agakomeza kukubwira ko umunyura, akwishimira kandi agakomeza kukubaha nk’uko byatangiye. Abakundana bemerana ingeso buri umwe afite iyo ntacyo zibangamiraho urukundo rwabo, ariko nabwo abakundana barafashanya mu buryo butandukanye harimo gutozanya imico myiza no kwigishanya kureka utugeso tumwe na tumwe tubangamira ubuzima bwa buri munsi bakatureka.

8. Kukugirira ishema. Umuhungu ugukunda aterwa ishema na we, niho uzabona igihe mugendana agufata akaboko, ari nk’umurinzi wawe. Iki ni kimwe mu bimenyetso by’ingenzi bikoreshwa igihe abakundana bari kugendana. Iyo umuhungu agukunda aba yumva yanabyereka buri wese ko mukundana, aba yumva nta banga ririmo ko mukundana.

9. Kukwifungurira. Umuhungu utagira icyo aguhisha ndetse n’amakosa ye. Yewe n’iyo yagukoreye amakosa wowe ntuhite uyabona we aragutanga akayakwibwirira kandi akayagusabira imbabazi.

10. Uritondere abahungu bafite akarimi karyoshye kandi gashyushye. Ntibyoroha kwirengagiza amagambo aryoheye amatwi ariko ayo magambo akenshi aba yuzuye uburyarya. Amagambo akenshi arabeshya niyo mpamvu ari byiza cyane kugendera ku bikorwa n’imyitwarire bigaragara. Hari abahungu batabarika bigarurira abakobwa bakoresheje utugambo turyoshye kandi mu mitima yabo bafite izindi nyungu bagendereye bashaka kugeraho zitandukaye n’urukundo rw’ukuri.